kindness for anybody

Ah, bother me...
lots of my desire bother me..

my desire is like wanna do..., wanna be..., wanna get.... things...

you also have those desires don't you?

i think a strong desire makes our motivation improved..
while we are struggling to do something, it can give an energy.
it can make us refreshed.

but in other words, a strong desire might make somebody unhappy.
like a,,,
you are at a restaurant, you wanna eat a fried noodle, your friend wants a fried rice..(silly examle.. forget it..pls) it's a limited budget..
if one of both strongly desire your preferred dish,, one mighe be unhappy..

i wanna say, extreme desire bring people a bad situation..

what you want to do might be what people don't want to do.

so resolve such a situation,, it needs a kindness.

let me give an above silly example back,
before the guy order one of dishes, they make a promise "next time i follow what you want to eat..". , then they order..

it sounds good.

or before order,,, try to think a better option..
ask a waiter "could you mix a fried rice with a fried noodle??"

be kind...